Fan Questions: “I recently meet sumone and he said there’s no limits. This will actually be my first time being his submissive should there be any limits.?”
Answer: YES! There should ALWAYS be limits! Everyone has a breaking point and you should always negotiate what your hard and soft limits are. Discuss everything with a potential partner before you play with them. Here is a great negotiation form to start with: http://www.bdsm-education.com/negotiation.html
I also want to add that if ANY dom(me) tries to tell you that there are no limits, that you aren’t allowed to have a safeword or that you can’t have a safe call or buddy at a first meeting.. they are deliberately taking advantage of you and they do not deserve the title “Dom(me)”.